Dealing with Reality

YOU

Qin

Today I would like to write about an interesting “simulation game”.
This game is very similar to another role playing game called SIMS 2. The difference is that YOU will be playing multiple roles at once.

Before playing this game, YOU are formless, which means YOU do not have a physical body. Therefore YOU need a “medium” to play the simulation game.

To start the game YOU carefully choose a “character” and plan his role in the big game. YOU look around in the game matrix to find a suitable family for this character. Since YOU are curious to learn about this game, YOU also set a “mission” or several missions for the role so that YOU will experience certain events through this role. Sometimes YOU can set a mission for the role to cause certain events in the game to happen.

Once YOU have done all the settings, YOU “incarnate” into the baby of the family that YOU have chosen. Now YOU have a “body” to play the role in this game. Let’s label this new born baby as YOUR “extension” since he is literally an extension of YOU in this game.

Since YOU are playing multiple characters in this game, YOU will be controlling many “extensions” in the game.

Time flies…. Woosshhhh

Some of your extensions are now adults. Their lives are getting interesting and YOU just sit back and watch things happen. YOU, as a consciousness, are controlling YOUR extension with YOUR will. Whenever YOU wish an extension to move about, YOU will YOUR extension to do so. YOUR extension will get a “gut feeling” and move according to YOUR will.

Sometimes it is not easy to “tell” YOUR extension what to do as they can be very stubborn. Let’s say that one of YOUR extensions is called Jason. One day Jason is walking back home from college. YOU notice that there are many fierce puppies roaming around the road. They could probably hurt Jason seriously. Jason does not know about the puppies since he didn’t sense the presence of these blood thirsty beasts. YOU tried to warm him about the danger by sending some “wave message” to him.

Jason got YOUR warning. He felt uncomfortable in his heart and stomach. However, his ego causes him to think that he shouldn’t detour just to save time. He thinks and analyses too much and decides to walk the path he used to walk.
AAAAUUUCHHH!!! Too bad Jason got bitten by those cute, blood thirsty puppies and he is bedridden in hospital for a week. From this event he learned his lesson.

Well, sometimes YOU might feel that YOUR extensions are so stubborn to listen to your warnings and hints, which might annoy both parties. YOU know that YOU and YOUR extensions should cooperate well to play the game smoothly.
Now let us use a bit of extended imagination….

Let’s say that Jason, Tom and Lisa are YOUR extensions. One of their “missions” in life is to meet each other and become good friends. YOU carefully choose to incarnate them in the same residential area. One day you manifest an event that interest these three extensions, let’s say a party. YOU will YOUR extensions to walk to each other and YOU will them to have interest to talk to each other, They break the ice and become friends. Congrates, YOU have accomplished something in the game! That is how everything works

(Dear readers, try to imagine you are the will of a few people and imagine willing them to walk to each other and greet each other… or setting events so that YOUR extensions will meet each other. Imagine as clear as possible as if YOU are controlling several consciousness at once)

Jason, Tom and Lisa always hang out together. They always chat online too. They ARE actually the same, which are actually YOU, but due to their “illusionary perception” they thought they are just separated individuals…. It must be fun for YOU to play them without them to notice that they are actually the same

Well, let’s say that I am also a game player, and YOU and I are in the game of another game, and there is another BIGGER YOU playing YOU and I as extension… and this BIGGER YOU is the extension of another BIGGER YOU.. This goes right up to THE BIGGEST YOU, the Will, or consciousness of all consciousness… Some people call this BIGGEST YOU as God, others prefer to label him as universal super consciousness, or whatever bombastic names. However, YOU and I know that there is no separation between both of US and we are just the extension of THE BIGGEST YOU. Too bad OUR extensions on planet earth still live in the illusions, thinking that every extension is separated from each other…

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YOU actually love YOUR extensions. They are cute little people under YOUR care to play their role in the illusionary world. YOU actually hope that YOUR extensions will start to know YOU, say hello to YOU or talk to YOU. Well, if YOU love your “creations” so much that YOU will help them in their path, and if they turn to YOU and request something from YOU, I believe YOU will help them to grant their desire right? Too bad after playing the game for a long time, many extensions still never get to know YOU. They are still living in their illusionary world, worrying about their assignments and work. You can’t really blame them right? Look at Jason, he is listening to his egos all the time and he is playing Britney Spear’s crappy songs respectively all the time in his mental ear. With such low awareness, don’t YOU think it is difficult for him to notice YOU? He needs to put effort to look deep into himself!

If these extensions want to manifest the lives that they want, or grow spiritually, they need to look deep into themselves and get to know YOU!

YOU want to help them, so YOU come to ME.

I have a wise extension called Prophy. Prophy always listen and connect to ME and I always help him to fulfill his desires. I know Prophy can help YOUR stubborn extension, Jason in his mission to connect to YOU. So YOU and I have made an agreement to let Jason learn spiritually under Prophy. Both of us manifest a situation and let Prophy and Jason meet somewhere….

Prophy and Jason chatted for a long time. Jason was deeply inspired by Prophy. He learns a lot about reality manifestation from Prophy and improves very fast. Under Prophy’s teaching, Jason meditates and stays away from TV and movies. He learns to face his egos and lower emotions like fear and hatred. Prophy teaches Jason to increase his awareness and to get to know YOU. In their world, WE are being called “higher selves” or “souls”, what a weird name for US.

To get to know his “higher self”, Jason learns that his physical body, personality, mental chatter, rubbish memories etc. are not the real him (YOU). He let go his ego and mental thinking, and sinks deep. He stays in the now and feel aware. He feels so calm, crystal clear and suddenly he feels a Zen like realization. He “sees” a big pool of universal consciousness, connected to everything, spaceless and formless. Yes, finally YOUR extension sees YOU. He is waving his hands at YOU…. Wow man, YOU got really excited. Finally YOUR extension has successfully known YOU!

Now Jason feels connected to YOU. He realized that connecting to YOU helps him in fulfilling his wishes. YOU help him in tackling various issues. For example, whenever Jason faces his exam, he let YOU know his problems and desire to do well in exam.

He let YOU know the outcome he desired by imagining the result vividly. He let YOU know more by feeling (emotion) the success of doing well in his future exam. He confirms his desire by having the will of doing well in his exam. He “faxed” this information to YOU in a clean, tidy, clearly described form. Since YOU know exactly what Jason wants, YOU set up various situations where Jason will be successful in his exam. YOU arrange other smart extensions to help him along the way. YOU arrange various events that are not expected by Jason. YOU nourish Jason’s physical body to keep him healthy. YOU let Jason “feel” the questions that might come out in the exam, so that Jason knows which chapter should be learned more. In the end of the day, Jason did very well in his exam. He thanked YOU with gratitude.

Years later, Jason falls in love with Jenny, who is a very pretty girl, who happens to be MY extension. Jason tries to gain Jenny’s heart but failed at many attempts. He asked Prophy for advice. Prophy told him to talk to ME, saying that if I allow Jenny to be his, then they will become a loving couple. Jason asks ME to grant his wish, so I manifest a situation for them to meet and I let Jenny pay closer attention to Jason. Politely Jason talks to her and ask her out. Jenny does not know why she was so turned on by Jason. Finally, they become happy couple 

Years later Jason decides to develop spiritually. He decides to get to know YOU, and also THE BIGGEST YOU. He realizes that he has to overcome the illusions that make him perceive himself as separated from all living beings. First he has to overcome his lower emotions, especially fear and ego. He needs to overcome the mundane entertainment memories that keep droning in his mind. He can’t “see” YOU if he is seeing naked ladies and listening to Britney Spears all the time right? By embracing higher emotions like love and compassion, Jason gains spiritual awareness. With a calm mind and a loving, opened heart, he sees YOU and he realized that YOU or the BIGGEST YOU is always with him. He clearly realizes that everyone in this world is just extensions of THE BIGGEST YOU.

THE BIGGEST YOU is actually “inside” “Jason”.

People, who seek inwards, will finally get to know YOU!

Game over….

Sequel: YOU 2

Today I would like to share a very good article written by an indigo child.
Enjoy :
 

Dear World,

There are so many things I would like to explain to you, so many wonders, so many incredible and exciting things. They are all one thing really, one truth, that is so simple, but needs so much traveling to get to before anyone who has forgotten it can understand it fully.

Firstly, no matter what you believe, there is one thing that unites all peoples, and that is this: the filling and beautiful feeling, the existence of love in each persons heart. It is there in everyone, everything, every person and object and idea and feeling. It is the basis of everything. It is the base substance, out of which everything else exists.

If it is not love, it is not there, it is an illusion of the ego, the mind.
This is the great truth, the wonder of life.

Secondly, how you experience reality, that intricate and subtle thing you call real, is your personal creation. You have made it of your love, it is yours wholly and fully, and will always be yours. So, in effect, you are existing inside yourself, or what you think of as your mind. In this way, everything is a reflection of an aspect of yourself, and you recognize it as this also. This means that there is no polarity, no right or wrong, only is, and it is you. Do not judge what it, do not label it, this creates separation.

In that everything is you, so you are everything.

This is a part of what is meant by ‘all is one’.

Everyone else is a part of you, and so you are a part of everyone else. The meaning of love is the recognition that that person is another facet of yourself, and you are a reflection of a part of them. In this way, love can be learnt of all things, and non-things. Fear is the separation of these parts, and the un-acceptance ‘that’ that is a part of what you think of as yourself. But to join these parts, painful as it may seem, is easy and fulfilling.

To fully love something you do not like or understand, that is to make it a part of yourself again, to un-break yourself. So reach out, be that thing, find it’s reflection in your heart, resonate with it and love it, accept it for being there. And you will be whole again.

This is the great secret that is no secret, it is so simple, so real, you can do it today, right now. Accept it, do not fight it. Love truly is all that is, and you are love.

Love From Lindsay

source :
http://www.namastecafe.com/evolution/indigo/speaks.htm

Many people are “trapped” in the loop of life.
They always meet the same kind of people
and they always encounter similar events.
They thought that things will change after they change their jobs or schools
but they are still trapped in the same loop after they do so…

No matter what happens,
similar events repeat themselves all the time
as if the same kind of life is looping itself everyday.

They meet people with similar character and attitude.
Probably they keep on meeting nasty people for no reason.
They encounter “bad luck“ frequently
as if the whole world is against them.

This kind of weird life looping might make us ponder…
we are like being trapped in the looping of life
or we are missing something
or we need to learn something
or we need to change something to escape from such loop.

Here’s a question for you.
If you are “trapped” in the loop of life
what would you choose to do?

Sadly, many people have chosen to accept and believe that the reality is harsh.

*shrug*

It is their choice of believing so.
So be it.

As I have said on my matrix post,
emotions are directly related to our reality.

Emotions exist in the form of energy.
There are many different emotions with certain frequency.
They ripple through the matrix and affect the reality around us.

Higher emotions like love, compassion and gratitude have high frequency and are energetic
(those of you who do love meditation for a prolonged time can feel the strong vibration)
and Lower emotions like hatred, sadness and fear are at the lower end of the spectrum and they keep you low in energy.

Emotions are not something weak or negligible.
When you always feel lower emotions,
or when you choose to accept that the reality is pessimistic,
you will encounter events that are not good
or you will encounter people who are negative.
It is like the law of attraction in life.

Emotions have butterfly effect in reality.
They seem to be negligible but a small swing of emotion affects the people and events around you.
If you read Zen stories,
you will know that emotions play a big role in putting you in certain state and event in life.

You can observe the people around you.
Those who get angry all the time
or those people who always feel negatively and criticize others negatively
They encounter many negative events,
as if life does not run smoothly and reality bites.
Observe how they live their lives and how satisfying they are with their realities.

Embrace higher emotions,
or at least feel good in life.
Laughter helps to charge you up and happiness will make you stay healthy.
Stay happy and make other people feel good.

We shall explore Quantum Physics and reveal the nature of our reality.

Atom is made of nucleus and electron.
More than 99% of its volume is empty space.
Our world is made of atoms, which is separated wide apart from each other,
making our world 99.999% space.

The tiny particles in atoms are actually energy, which have their own specific energy wavelength.

If we perceive the world in terms of Quantum Physics,
our reality is just a complex matrix of energy.
Solid matters like steel are just condensed blocks of energy in it.

The colourful world we perceive is just illusions created from various physical properties of the matrix.

Our world has many different spectra like temperature, colour and even emotions.
There is a huge variation in a spectrum due to different “codes”, or we can better say that certain things have certain vibration (energy wavelength) which give them certain physical properties like colour and temperature.

For example, atoms that oscillate with higher frequency emit light of higher spectrum like violet light. Air molecules that vibrate faster (higher frequency) have higher temperature.

Our world is a complex web of energy matrix consist of vibrational codes.
The codes of matrix are simply varieties of vibrations as energy has its own specific frequency or wavelength.

In Quantum Physics,
we know that consciousness of an individual can manipulate probabilities of events.
There are Quantum Theories like Schrödinger’s cat that suggest that consciousness is linked to our reality.

Every choice you make affects the matrix.

Your thought and emotions play important roles in the world of matrix as well.
Emotion is like energy. Different emotions have different vibration. Lower emotions like hatred keep your energy field weak and higher emotions energize your energy field.
Emotional energy from us can ripple through the matrix system and being perceived by consciousness around us. Our emotions we experience actually have influence over our own reality, so be careful of how you feel in life. Avoid negative and lower emotion at all course as it will only attract negative outcome in the matrix.

You can pick up people’s emotion subconsciously, that is why sometimes we feel the emotion or emotional energy field from someone else. Our feelings are influencing people around us.

Finally, I would like to say that if you are a skeptic, who only sees the world within Newtonian Physics,
you only perceive things like emotions and thought to be something separated from the reality.

However, our world is not limited by Newtonian Physics and your assumption. Everything is interconnected and the Physical world functions beyond what you normally believe.

Enjoy living in the matrix.
The good news is,
if you know about the nature of the matrix,
you can control it.

Many people tend not to realise something simple because they seek complicated explanation.
They have the mind frame and concept that the whole reality is complicated and things work in complicated ways.
Actually many things that are simple are made complicated.

Many Physical phenomena can be simplified with simple mathematical formulas. Events flow in certain patterns as time goes by. There is no need to make things complicated. Keep things simple…

When come to realisation, it is best to keep things simple and direct.
Talking the same things with long and complicated explanation only makes one walking around in circles.

Life is about making choices in the now and experiencing the world around us.
The basic thing we do is making choices, which is simple
but many people neglect simple things and they pursue complicated teachings and explanation.
End up some of them give up their free will and let others control their lives, which is quite sad.
Some of them waste their time walking in circles as they make things complicated and they reach no where.

Keep things simple.
You do not have to perceive simple things as something complicated.
Just like things happen naturally as we observe:

As the wind blows gently,
the leaves fall on the right spot
at the right time

Here’s an analogy.

We are swordsmen.

The reality (life) around us is like the blade of the sword.
The handle of the sword is our inner state.

How our reality changes depends on how we control the sword.

We need to learn to control the sword and bring the flow of life.
This is an important lesson that we have to learn in life.

We have to learn when to let go and when to attach.

When the flow is there,
events of reality will come smoothly.
Things will manifest by themselves nicely,
even people around us will smile at us for no reason.

When the flow become stagnant
we might face various negative events in life.

Life is like the art of swordplay.
It is about how well your consciousness can control the sword.
When you can control your sword well,
you control not just controllable events,
but also events that seem uncontrollable like possibilities, outcomes, weather etc.
as everything is interconnected.

Be a good controller of your own sword
so that you can deal with reality well.

To deal with anger, the first thing you need to do is knowing that you are angry.

People let their emotions and voices in head (mind) control them.
They unconsciously choose to do whatever their emotions and inner chatter tell them to do.
To deal with your “inner” self,
you have to observe your mind and emotion with your consciousness.
By doing so you start to become aware of your mind and emotion.

(for example) Many people who get angry do not really realise that they are in the state of anger.
They simply do whatever that comes into their mind and emotion.
They lack the will to control themselves.

Whenever you face negative emotions,
simply observe your inner state
as if you are the third party who observes your mind and feelings.
Observe and realise that you are in negative state.

After that calm down and choose to let go all attachment towards the negativity.
Do not think of the things (stimulus) that cause the negativity.
Think of something positive,
like imagine lying down gently and happily in warm water.
Choose to control your mind and emotion.
Gradually you will develop will power to overcome yourself.

A good exercise to deal with yourself is meditation.
While meditating, we are focusing and observing something with our consciousness.
The inner chatter (mind) and emotion will arise
and we will have to observe them with our consciousness.
After that we either choose to ignore them or having control over them.
Simply apply what you do in meditation in real life and learn to control yourself.

It is not easy to conquer yourself at first but practice makes perfect.
Being able to deal with yourself is an important step to control your own life.

Yesterday a blogger friend of mine posted something on my old blog.
She was offended by my joke.
I have posted about the “drama” here.

It was really a small matter.
There is no flaming nor nasty language being used.
There are far worse situations than this such as this post.
Some people cannot handle small matters in life.

In life we meet people who are not friendly.
Sometimes they are offended by jokes that are not offensive.
You never know when they will slap you hard when you try to be nice.

Sometimes people even get offended when we do not smile nice enough to them.
They have unreasonable expectation towards us.

The main problem is,
They are so attached to small matters that they will fight over it.

There are many things that are not significant to fight over.
If people are willing to let go small matters,
Many fights and quarrels can be avoided.

There is no need for humans to fight each other over something insignificant.
Everyone should just let go and choose love.

I shall let go this small matter as well.
I blog about it to convey the message that people need to let go and live in peace.
It is not worth having a war over small matters.

We encounter a lot of people who are hypocrite and insincere.
They think by playing the cunning game of reality with other people,
they can gain benefits.
They have the thought that good players of reality are those who cheat, pretend and being insincere.

The truth is the other way round.

The ones who are good at playing the game are those who are sincere and caring.
Only those people who are bad in playing the reality game use dirty tricks in life.
End up they are they one who lose in the end.

The way to deal with people and reality
is being nice and sincere
and embracing the higher emotions like love, compassion and gratitude consistently.
By being so you will gain the flow of life and win the game of reality.

Exam is the ultimate challenge for most of the students.
They need to pass exam in order to move forward to their next stage of learning.

Not many people deal with exam wisely.
Many people have the belief that to pass exam
they must study hard and do many exercises.
They attach firmly to such belief
until they are being limited by their own thinking.

Let go such belief.

Dealing with exam is not about studying hard
It is about studying smart.

Some students do very well in exam with little effort
but many students perform moderately despite putting a lot of effort in their studies.
That does not mean that certain people are born genius as all of us have endless potential.
Those who do well simply study smart.

In learning process,
we should have long-term vision
Instead of spending time on doing tons of homework and reading textbooks,
Invest your time in long term development.

Develop your intelligence and train yourself to be an efficient learner.
Put effort in learning skills like multiple mentality, memory training, speed reading, creativity and thinking skills.
All these learning skills are very useful for the rest of your life.
Read interesting books besides text books to gain useful knowledge.

Homework and textbooks won’t bring you far in life. They are limited.
Doing tons of homework or reading a lot of textbooks won’t significantly increase your intelligence.
Your memory nor creativity will not develop
so why spend so much time on them?

Invest your time in long-term goals by being a great learner.
Training your intelligence is a good way to deal with exam.
because a powerful mind deals with exam much better than a mind that is limited by its own belief.

Now you can choose to be one of the students who passes exam easily.

People who cannot control their thoughts and emotions, cannot control the reality.
They let reality control their thoughts and emotions.
They cannot control because they are not good at making conscious choices.
They are more to accepters than choosers.

Start to control your thoughts and emotions by realising that you have free will to choose.
you can choose not to let negativity control you and you can embrace higher emotions like love, compassion and gratitude.

By having control over your “inner” world
you can proceed to control your “outer” reality.

Your thought and Emotion affects your life greatly.

People always have the perception that thought and emotion is something “inside” us
Most probably it is because they have inner physical sensation when they feel or think of something.
There is no saying that our consciousness is “inside” our bodies.
Our consciousness can be enveloping the physical body instead of residing “inside” it
or perhaps the consciousness is timeless and spaceless and it perceives through the physical body.
If that is the case, our thought and emotional process is affecting not just ourselves, but also our surrounding, as there is “connection” between our inner world and outer reality.

We are like souls with bodies, not bodies with souls.

What we think and feel attracts similar realities,
which will lead to similar outcome.

Thinking and feeling is actually making choices because we actually choose to think and feel.
Many people do not realise it as they have accepted that feeling and thought is something naturally fixed and not their choice. It is not true.
By making choices, even subtle choices of feeling and thinking,
you are choosing and attracting reality in life.

So be careful of what you choose to think and feel.
Choose to avoid negative thinking and emotion when they arise.
Attaching to this negativity will only cause you to be trapped in the loop of life where negative events will repeat themselves endlessly.
Therefore it is important to let go of the attachment towards negativity.

Avoid attaching to negativity (hatred, sadness, anger, greed).
One has the free will to choose to embrace the higher spectrum (love, gratitude).
Choose to have love and compassion and think healthily
and you will find that your life events are positive.