Dealing with Reality

I have to admit that I have made a mistake recently.
I have to apologies to myself and make the right choices.

Actually I was confused about my choices and action.
Recently I do things out of my passion.
I have to admit that I have created several new blogs because of my keen interest in certain themes. I blog and gain pleasure from doing so.
I was not certain whether my action was taken due to intuition, inspiration, distraction or passion.
I just do things headlong without really considering my action.

However, I was aware that something is wrong.
I feel like I am doing things that I am not suppose to do.
Time is wasted and somehow I went imbalance and confused.
I have made my choices unwisely.

Making choices is not easy.
I myself have made a lot of mistake in choosing.
I must be aware of my “future” action
and consider every of my choice,
whether the decision I make has a “need” or it is just an outcome of distraction or confusion.
I learn from my mistake and I must move on.

For now I need to find my direction.
I feel like my current blog is ego driven and I need to stop for a while and set things properly.
I need to clear my head.

Making choices is simple,
but not easy.

Today’s post is nothing much about realisation of reality.
It is about my experience in blogging.

I would like to post about blogging today as I have not been updating this blog lately
because I was a bit busy focusing on my other blogs.

I blog a lot.
I have about ten blogs.
I started blogging since 2001.

People always ask me why don’t I have a blog with many categories for various themes.

To me, it is not possible.
Each blog of mine is unique in its own way.
Each blog has its theme, mood and direction.
I cannot simply just mix my anime blog with my romance blog.
The mood is just wrong.

Blogging is just a way of expressing ideas and thoughts.
Just like any other activities like walking and talking…
Every blogger blogs has (her)his own way and direction.

To me, blogging is a way of expressing my passion.
Every time I post an entry, I feel satisfied.
Blogging is meaningful to me.
At least through blogging,
I share my joy and passion with my readers
and I improve humanity little by little through my blogs.

Just like what multidimid has commented on other blog,
blogs are made for the joy of sharing.
I agree with him.
I believe that both of us understand each other well…
and I am happy to have a loyal and wise reader like him (her).
(I hope multidimid will let me know his/her gender)
 

Question : Am I blogging for fame?

Answer : I blog anonymously. Can I become famous with a realization blog like this?
Many of my other blogs are completely anonymous, even without my nickname being displayed.

Question : Am I blogging for money?

Answer : No. Obviously not. I have Google adsence on my Online Shopping blog and that feature is being added just for fun and excitement. I am not updating that blog anymore.

Question : Do I have any blogging agenda?

Answer : I share stuffs on my blogs and I blog for joy and passion. My main blog is this blog. It has been submitted to various blog directories because I want as many people as possible to read my entries and benefit from them. Many people need to read something that can help them to live well.

If you have more question,
feel free to ask me honestly.
 

Regarding my style of blogging,
I blog in simple sentences.
I avoid using bombastic words and flowery sentences
because I want my message to be understood by my readers.
I want to reduce the communication barrier between my readers and me.

I want to have good connection with my readers.
That is why I blog as friendly as possible.
I comment on my readers’ blogs and I display all their blogs on my right panel
To me, the relationship between blogger and readers is quite important.
Somehow we are interrelated and it is best to have good relationship with other people in life.
I choose harmony.

Sometimes I might disagree with your ideas and you might disagree with my entries.
That is fine for me as disagreement is acceptable in discussion.
The important part of a discussion is the relationship amongst us.
Sadly some readers choose to hate me or label me as hypocrite by making assumption about me (they can’t read my mind and personality).
It is their choice… I respect them and …
so be it *shrug*

Some readers commented that I blog like an old wise man or I am like a Jedi master.
Sorry to let you know that I am a 23 year young student.
I simple just share my realization on this blog.

Realization is very different from Philosophy and theory.
Philosophy and theory are like talking Bla Bla Bla and making hypothesis and assumption and put some points to support them.
Sometimes they make things complicated and end up they walk around in circles.

Realisation is simple
it is just observing what is being presented without judgment.
Just like a stone is a stone, and falling leaves are just falling leaves.
It is simply observation without judgment.
However, people perceive simple things in complicated manner
as if Zen-like stuffs are very deep theories…
I do not know how this happens
but I can only say that things are actually simple
it is the illusions of mind that make us feel confused.
There is no need to walk around in circles and put complicated labels.
Keep things simple.
 

I would like to introduce you to some of my other blogs.
There is a list of my blogs on the right panel of this blog for your ease of finding my blogs.

Since the scope of my blogs are very wide,
please do not expect all of my blogs to satisfy your taste because each blog has very different theme.

Enjoy :

~* Dealing with Reality

This is a blog for me to share my realisation of life.
You can say that it is a “spiritual” blog as it focus on having a healthy and free livelihood,
It is about being able to control one’s life instead of being “trapped” in life.
This blog is telling my readers that life is not just about suffering and one can choose to live a comfortable reality.

~ Life Feel (Story Blog)

This is my xanga story blog.
I have not been updating it for a while.
Last time I used to post meaningful stories on my xanga blog.
The stories focus on love, compassion, friendship and other aspects of life.
If you like my xanga blog stories,
please share them with your friends.

Cool Stuffs

I have stopped updating this blog.
It is about online shopping.
Last time I used to enjoy online shopping.
I have discovered a lot of interesting and weird stuffs on eBay
so I thought the idea of sharing my online shopping experience is cool
That’s how I got this blog.
I stop blogging on this blog because it took me too much time to post an entry.

~Holding Your Hand~

This is a blog of romance.
The mood of this blog is important to me
as it is a piece of emotional artwork.
The layout is very simple and plain to express the idea of pure love between a girl, and a boy.
The author is anonymous to preserve the mood of the blog
I even do not want my readers to know the gender of the author for this reason
each post is short, simple and compact.
Its emotional value is posted in a spacious cube…
the sense of security and privacy of a person’s love feelings.

Relaxing (anti stress blog)

This blog is my anti-stress blog.
I believe people need to slow down a bit in life.
People need to learn to let go and relax.
This blog is very simple and spacious with relaxing pictures and calm mood
If you feel tired and stressed
simply calm down and enjoy yourself on my relaxing blog.

~Kuchiki Rukia Fan Blog~

Yeah. This blog is cool and active.
I am an anime watcher.
One of my favorite anime is Bleach.
Kuchiki Rukia is the lead female character in Bleach.
This blog is created for her fans.
You can find a lot of goodies like fan arts and banners here.

My Days

It is my new blog and it is not ready yet.
Expect to see a lot of my pictures there.

Life Feel Back Up Blog

Most of my blogs are on Blogsome.
I need to keep a backup of my entries on this blog
in case Blogsome terminates all its blogs
(this might happen, I hope it will never happen )
sometimes I post very long articles there and simply put the link on my other blogs,
just to save space.
 

About other people’s blog,
I must say that it is not easy to find good blogs on internet.
I read other blogs for fun and interaction.
Many blogs are online diaries where bloggers share their life experiences and interesting findings on their blog.
Sadly many bloggers choose to blog negatively.
Personally I would recommend my readers to avoid the obsession of reading negative blogs
but if you think it is alright and you can control yourself well,
you can read them for fun

If you want me to recommend good blogs,
I would recommend you to read something positive.
One nice example is smashp0p by Jason Goh.
although he blogs about mundane life in Malaysia,
his blog is colorful and positive.
His entries are simple and easy to understand.
I like to read blogs that are positive and simple…
as I always say, it is better to be simple and understandable.
 

About other people’s ways of blogging,
I respect their ways of blogging.
Blogging is free.
A blogger can choose whatever ways of blogging as long as (s)he does not limit or harm other people.
There are many negative and flaming blogs,
just like there are many negative people.
I choose to accept all blogs and bloggers.
“bad” and “good” to me are irrelevant.
There are various “colors” in a spectrum and it is best to learn to accept all sorts of blogs,
be it “good” or “bad”.
However, I have my own taste.
I prefer to visit positive blogs that are nice and simple. That is just my taste.

I think there is no need to teach nor lecture other people on how to blog. Whether a person blogs for fame, money or bad intention, (s)he has her(his) own journey in life. One will learn from (her)his own experience. What we need to do is learning how to accept them and live together harmoniously.
 

If you like to know more about blogging, you can email me or chat with my on instant messenger.
I am willing to share my blogging experience with my readers.

My Google Talk ID is iQing1314
and my MSN and YIM IDs are wushu_whc
if you have ICQ and AIM, you can add me :
202 405 059 and iQing

See you around my readers
Take care and live well.

This post is inspired by fellow blogger Suanie.
She has said that she will send some of her hate mails to me.
(she was just kidding)

Some people receive hate mails.
I am not excluded and I shall share my experience with you.

I have received a hate mail not long ago from a Chinese course mate of mine.
It is interesting to see that (s)he hates me just because I am having different interests from (her)him.
(this reminds me of fanatically religious people who hate other people who are different from them).
It is more interesting to see how (s)he put a lot of effort in hating me.
Besides spreading bad words about me,
(s)he has created a fake email account : cultexorcist @web.de
with a fake name to write a very long hate mail to me…

I have posted the hate mail on my backup blog as the hate mail is too long to be displayed here.
Here’s the permalink :

http://lfbackup.blogspot.com/2005/11/hate-mail.html

It is interesting to see how (s)he made a lot of assumptions

(S)He has failed to provoke me (I was laughing while reading the hate mail)
because I was reading something written by a coward who “slapped” me without the guts to show his(her) true identity (real name)
and this coward (my unknown course mate) was willing to spend a lot of time in creating a fake email account and writing a very long email just to provoke me.
Some people are funny. They put so much effort on doing something that is not beneficial and destructive
(hatred makes people do crazy things like that).

I pity him(her),
after wasting a lot of time on the hate mail,
(s)he has proven (her)himself to be a coward
and worst of all,
(s)he is a puppet of (her)his mind and emotions
and (s)he thinks with logic flaws (in this case, making assumption and being driven by his ego).

:)

I hope you will not do the same thing like this coward.
It is totally non-beneficial to hate others.
It only makes you weak (becoming a coward, making assumptions etc.)

Here’s a question for you to ponder.

If you receive similar hate mails
what would you do?

Here are two options :

1.
Reply the mail or respond to it angrily and create a big loop of hate war.
(I notice that there are blog wars going on amongst fellow bloggers)

2.
Simply forgive and let go and laugh at the hate mail like me

Make your choice wisely.

Chatting online via instant messengers is a very good way to interact with other people.
Here are some of the links where you can download popular instant messengers :

MSN Messenger
Yahoo Instant Messenger (YIM)
Google Talk

Sometimes when you say “hi” to your friends online
they do not respond.
Sometimes they are sleeping or away but many times even when they are online,
they ignore us.
I am not that kind of chatter so I do not now why people ignore messages on instant messenger.

Just like in real life,
it is polite to say hello when we meet somebody we know.
It is not just about politeness
but also about how you make people feel.
sometimes a smile and a word of “Hello, how are you”
will make a difference to other people
although it is just a small and simple gesture.

Well, if you say “hi” to me online,
I shall respond to you and chat with you.
I am looking forward to build constructive and meaningful relationship with other people.

Sometimes instant messenger is faulty and I cannot get messages.
Sometimes I am sleeping when my PC is on.
Therefore I would like to apologies if I fail to respond to your message.

Smiling with a word of “hello” is not something worthless.
It is a polite gesture and a small action that makes the world better.

Small things count in life,
it is about how you make your choices.

I have just blogged about myself (introduction)
and now I would like to blog about my readers.
Today I shall present a very special entry…
an entry where I can show my gratitude towards my readers.

I would like to introduce some of my readers here.

Kyels is a Malaysian blogger and she is one of the earliest visitors of this blog.
Sometimes we interact on instant messenger and I find that both of us share very similar intellectual interest.
No doubt both of us are very intellectually clicked.
We read the same kind of books and we discuss the same kind of topics.
She is a very good blogger and her entries are very good in the standard of her blog genre.
She updates her blog very frequently and most of the time I agree with her opinions.
She puts a lot of effort in getting to know other bloggers as she comments on many other blogs.

Here’s the link to Kyel’s blog :

http://kyels.com/wordpress/

She blogs about letting go too.

Thanks to Kyels for visiting my blog often and thanks to her for supporting me. *hugz*

Blog reader Kyels

I would love to introduce this special blog reader : Eliza Lee aka Lizzy the dreamer
She is a cute and talented Malaysian blogger.
We chat very often online and we are clicked emotionally….
Her blog entries are very well written, sometimes funny, and she likes to show her funny faces on her blog.
Usually I am not very interested in her blog genre but somehow she manages to pour in emotional ingredients into her entries, making her blog very interesting.
Somehow I find that I am so click with her entries,
maybe we have the same wavelength emotionally (both of us are Aries)
It is nice to have a blog friend like Lizzy

I would like to thank her for making a banner for my romance blog
and for discussing interesting stuffs on blogging with me.
*sweet hugz*

Here’s her blog where she post interesting entries :
http://suemefordreaming.blogspot.com/

Lizzy the mischievous blogger

Finally I want to introduce an active commenter of my blog : Multidimid
Multidimid never post his weblink so I can never tell if (s)he is a blogger.
I only know that he is from Malaysia.
He is the reader who has very similar spiritual views with me.
He understands my entries well and we are really clicked.
You can say that we are actually saying the same thing in different words.

I express my realization (yes, I know I purposely spell it as “realisation” on other entries) in a casual, direct and simple way
wherelse multidimid expresses his view in a more “new age” or “quantum Physics” style.
He does believe that human has limitless potential and he believes that human mind can manipulate reality.
We always agree with each other spiritually and I would like to thank him for putting effort in posting long and useful comments.

I would like to thank the other blog readers for reading my blog.
I am very happy if you find my blog to be very useful.
I think you might be interested to know why I post nice scenery images on my entries.
There are many reasons behind it
and one of the reasons is to show gratitude to my readers…
Many of the nice images are actually wallpapers being resized using simple HTML image code.
If you love the images, you can keep them.
They are my gift to my readers.
simple right click on the images and click [view image] to view the pictures in actual size.

I would like to take this opportunity to share some blog tips with you.
If you are using mozilla firefox browser,
it is very useful to hold the key [CTRL] and press [+] or [-] to change the size of the words for comfort reading.
You can also hold the key [CTRL] and roll your mouse to achieve the same effect.

You can also subscribe to my entries so that you can get my newest entries via email or RSS feeding. The feed links are on the right panel of this blog.
This webpage explains how RSS works.

Occasionally I create new blogs.
You can view my other blogs by clicking their hyperlinks on the right panel.

Finally, I welcome you to add me to your instant messenger.
simply add wushu_whc to your MSN or Yahoo IM
If you are using google talk, my Gtalk account is iqing1314

Have fun everybody and live well…

*having gratitude towards my readers*

*Update : If your comment does not appear on the comment box, that means you are commenting on my blog for the first time. After I approve your first comment, your future comments will all be approved automatically. Sorry for the inconvenience but I have to deal with spammers

thanks.