This post is inspired by fellow blogger Suanie.
She has said that she will send some of her hate mails to me.
(she was just kidding)

Some people receive hate mails.
I am not excluded and I shall share my experience with you.

I have received a hate mail not long ago from a Chinese course mate of mine.
It is interesting to see that (s)he hates me just because I am having different interests from (her)him.
(this reminds me of fanatically religious people who hate other people who are different from them).
It is more interesting to see how (s)he put a lot of effort in hating me.
Besides spreading bad words about me,
(s)he has created a fake email account : cultexorcist @web.de
with a fake name to write a very long hate mail to me…

I have posted the hate mail on my backup blog as the hate mail is too long to be displayed here.
Here’s the permalink :

http://lfbackup.blogspot.com/2005/11/hate-mail.html

It is interesting to see how (s)he made a lot of assumptions

(S)He has failed to provoke me (I was laughing while reading the hate mail)
because I was reading something written by a coward who “slapped” me without the guts to show his(her) true identity (real name)
and this coward (my unknown course mate) was willing to spend a lot of time in creating a fake email account and writing a very long email just to provoke me.
Some people are funny. They put so much effort on doing something that is not beneficial and destructive
(hatred makes people do crazy things like that).

I pity him(her),
after wasting a lot of time on the hate mail,
(s)he has proven (her)himself to be a coward
and worst of all,
(s)he is a puppet of (her)his mind and emotions
and (s)he thinks with logic flaws (in this case, making assumption and being driven by his ego).

:)

I hope you will not do the same thing like this coward.
It is totally non-beneficial to hate others.
It only makes you weak (becoming a coward, making assumptions etc.)

Here’s a question for you to ponder.

If you receive similar hate mails
what would you do?

Here are two options :

1.
Reply the mail or respond to it angrily and create a big loop of hate war.
(I notice that there are blog wars going on amongst fellow bloggers)

2.
Simply forgive and let go and laugh at the hate mail like me :)

Make your choice wisely.