
If you have an opinion that something is bad and you wish to express it,
it is better to avoid using negative labels like stupid and suck.
Negative labels either potentially hurt other people’s feelings
or it will fill your mind with negativity (yuck!)
so cut down or simply avoid the usage of negative labels.
You can use positive and constructive labels as alternative.
Here’s a suggestion :
instead of saying something sucks or someone is stupid,
use labels like
“(s)he has a lot of room for improvement”
“it can be done better”


























i think the reason why lots of ppl use such words is because of american influence in film & music, blame the american, now we all wanna b cool & talk like them!
Comment by Wuching — October 25, 2005 @ 5:05 am
…and they have a lot of social problems….
media make things like taking coke (drugs), smoking, having sex and violence look cool. They want people to have bad livelihood so that people can become weak and being controlled easily.
Comment by Life Feel — October 25, 2005 @ 5:08 am
All you people here have a lot of room for improvement.
Comment by Eliar Swiftfire — October 25, 2005 @ 7:13 am
eliar swiftfire is THE sort of ppl i was talking about, ashamed of his chinese name & rather call himself some angmoh name trying to b cool! pathetic LOSER!
Comment by wuching — October 25, 2005 @ 12:17 pm
You are so mean. I am crying already. We all have a lot of room for improvement.
Comment by Eliar Swiftfire — October 25, 2005 @ 10:57 pm
Get well soon, for you head problem
LOL
(a positive way of “scolding” people
)
Comment by Life Feel — October 26, 2005 @ 2:37 am
Yup. We all have a lot of room for improvement, don’t we.
Comment by Liz — October 26, 2005 @ 8:02 pm
wuching i agree with what you say. Probably american wannab”ies”. Thanks for pulling out this correction to everyone
Comment by kcyap — October 27, 2005 @ 1:37 am