
Yesterday a blogger friend of mine posted something on my old blog.
She was offended by my joke.
I have posted about the “drama” here.
It was really a small matter.
There is no flaming nor nasty language being used.
There are far worse situations than this such as this post.
Some people cannot handle small matters in life.
In life we meet people who are not friendly.
Sometimes they are offended by jokes that are not offensive.
You never know when they will slap you hard when you try to be nice.
Sometimes people even get offended when we do not smile nice enough to them.
They have unreasonable expectation towards us.
The main problem is,
They are so attached to small matters that they will fight over it.
There are many things that are not significant to fight over.
If people are willing to let go small matters,
Many fights and quarrels can be avoided.
There is no need for humans to fight each other over something insignificant.
Everyone should just let go and choose love.
I shall let go this small matter as well.
I blog about it to convey the message that people need to let go and live in peace.
It is not worth having a war over small matters.


























Erm, I don’t know, cause it seems like a pretty petty matter to me.
She probably does think that she’s plump.
So she didn’t like it that you told her so …
But then again, I think I am plump as well, and if you dropped by my blog and told me “you’re plump”, I MIGHT just defend myself. I mean, I wouldn’t mean it to be rude or anything, but sometimes girls (and guys) with egos do it to defend and protect themselves.
Don’t take it too seriously k?
Comment by Liz — October 2, 2005 @ 6:28 pm
No I didn’t
I already let go.
I just blog about it to share my experience and convey my messege.
Thanks for dropping by
Comment by Life Feel — October 2, 2005 @ 6:29 pm
I don’t think she’s plump but u r entitled to ur own opinion..
To some females, they don’t like to hear negative opinion about their physical attributes. Or to some ppl (male/female), they don’t like to hear negative stuff about them at all.
Hheehe, with online, it’s hard to tell if it’s a joke or not unless there’s icon/video
Comment by MJ — October 5, 2005 @ 9:26 am
I have added an emoticon of :=P
the actual comment that I post on her blog is :
kinda plump :=P
Comment by Life Feel — October 5, 2005 @ 2:49 pm