Dealing with Reality

I have found this lovely list from this blog and I would like to share it with you.
Practise them !

A to Z of Life

A void negative people, places, things and habits.
B elieve in yourself.
C onsider things from every angle.
D on’t give up and don’t give in.
E njoy life today, Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow may never come!
F amily and friends are hidden treasures. Seek them and enjoy their riches.
G ive more than you planned.
H ang on to your dreams.
I gnore those who try to discourage you!
J ust do it!
K eep trying no matter how hard it seems. It will get easier!
L ove yourself first and most.
M ake dreams happen.
N ever lie, cheat or steal. Always strike a fair deal.
O pen your eyes and see things as they really are.
P ractice makes perfect.
Q uitters never win and winners never quit!
R ead and learn about everything important to you.
S top procrastinating!
T ake control of your own destiny.
U nderstand yourself in order to better understand others.
V isualize your dreams.
W ant your dream more than anything.
X -ccelerate your efforts.
Y ou are a unique individual. Nothing can replace YOU!
Z ero in on your goals and GO FOR THEM!

Yesterday a blogger friend of mine posted something on my old blog.
She was offended by my joke.
I have posted about the “drama” here.

It was really a small matter.
There is no flaming nor nasty language being used.
There are far worse situations than this such as this post.
Some people cannot handle small matters in life.

In life we meet people who are not friendly.
Sometimes they are offended by jokes that are not offensive.
You never know when they will slap you hard when you try to be nice.

Sometimes people even get offended when we do not smile nice enough to them.
They have unreasonable expectation towards us.

The main problem is,
They are so attached to small matters that they will fight over it.

There are many things that are not significant to fight over.
If people are willing to let go small matters,
Many fights and quarrels can be avoided.

There is no need for humans to fight each other over something insignificant.
Everyone should just let go and choose love.

I shall let go this small matter as well.
I blog about it to convey the message that people need to let go and live in peace.
It is not worth having a war over small matters.

We all need to realise that we have free will and we can choose.
If we do not make use of our free will and make conscious choices
we will be controlled by other people or reality itself.

Realise that free will is in your hand and make conscious choices all the time.
The reality is yours to control so live your life that you wish.

You have the free will to choose to do anything accept taking people’s lives or limiting and damaging other people’s free will.

We must respect other people’s free will as well.
Attacking their choices in life is negative.
Everyone has their own choices to make and they will “grow” in life as they choose.

Some people choose to be nasty and treat others badly.
Well, sad for them. It is their choice and they will reap what they sow.
There is no need to attack nastiness with more nastiness because that will not rectify the problem.
It only brings more damage to life.

You do not need others to control you.
You can choose the way to live
and you can choose to do whatever you want.
So make your choices well.