Dealing with Reality

If some men conquer in battle
a thousand times a thousand men,
and if another conquer himself,
he is the greatest of conquerors.

- The Dhammapada

For a man to conquer himself is the first and noblest of all victories.

- Plato

It is better to conquer yourself than the reality.
Before you can control the reality,
you have to control yourself.

Many people obey and succumb to the voices in their heads (mind) and their emotions.
The mind is the tool of our consciousness
and emotions are what we feel.
We have the choice of not being controlled by the “inner demon” in us.
People who cannot control themselves are like being dragged by their emotions and inner voice all the time.
They lack the will power to control themselves.
Easily they live their lives like puppets.

It is true that it is not easy for a normal person to control their mind and emotions at first.
Many people become agitated when they try to control themselves or meditate.
However, practice makes perfect.
If you choose to learn to control yourself consistently,
you will gain the will power to live the life you truly desire,
without being pulled or pushed by your mind and emotion.
Your consciousness should make the choices,
not your emotions and mind.
Learn how to control them.
with patience you will win yourself.

Some people say that not adhering to emotions and thought is being hypocrite.
They think that one should swear and being cunning to “fit” into the “real life”
They believe that by doing so, one is being honest to (her)himself.
If you choose to act according to your inner voices and emotions,
you will stay stagnant and limited
and you will always be controlled by your own mind and emotions
end up you will get stuck in your own “reality”
That is your choice in life… so choose well.

Choose not to be a slave of your own mind and emotions.
Overcome them consistently and you will gain the will power
so that you can control yourself and your own reality.

As I have said on my matrix post,
emotions are directly related to our reality.

Emotions exist in the form of energy.
There are many different emotions with certain frequency.
They ripple through the matrix and affect the reality around us.

Higher emotions like love, compassion and gratitude have high frequency and are energetic
(those of you who do love meditation for a prolonged time can feel the strong vibration)
and Lower emotions like hatred, sadness and fear are at the lower end of the spectrum and they keep you low in energy.

Emotions are not something weak or negligible.
When you always feel lower emotions,
or when you choose to accept that the reality is pessimistic,
you will encounter events that are not good
or you will encounter people who are negative.
It is like the law of attraction in life.

Emotions have butterfly effect in reality.
They seem to be negligible but a small swing of emotion affects the people and events around you.
If you read Zen stories,
you will know that emotions play a big role in putting you in certain state and event in life.

You can observe the people around you.
Those who get angry all the time
or those people who always feel negatively and criticize others negatively
They encounter many negative events,
as if life does not run smoothly and reality bites.
Observe how they live their lives and how satisfying they are with their realities.

Embrace higher emotions,
or at least feel good in life.
Laughter helps to charge you up and happiness will make you stay healthy.
Stay happy and make other people feel good.

If you have an opinion that something is bad and you wish to express it,
it is better to avoid using negative labels like stupid and suck.

Negative labels either potentially hurt other people’s feelings
or it will fill your mind with negativity (yuck!)
so cut down or simply avoid the usage of negative labels.

You can use positive and constructive labels as alternative.
Here’s a suggestion :

instead of saying something sucks or someone is stupid,
use labels like

“(s)he has a lot of room for improvement”

“it can be done better”

We shall explore Quantum Physics and reveal the nature of our reality.

Atom is made of nucleus and electron.
More than 99% of its volume is empty space.
Our world is made of atoms, which is separated wide apart from each other,
making our world 99.999% space.

The tiny particles in atoms are actually energy, which have their own specific energy wavelength.

If we perceive the world in terms of Quantum Physics,
our reality is just a complex matrix of energy.
Solid matters like steel are just condensed blocks of energy in it.

The colourful world we perceive is just illusions created from various physical properties of the matrix.

Our world has many different spectra like temperature, colour and even emotions.
There is a huge variation in a spectrum due to different “codes”, or we can better say that certain things have certain vibration (energy wavelength) which give them certain physical properties like colour and temperature.

For example, atoms that oscillate with higher frequency emit light of higher spectrum like violet light. Air molecules that vibrate faster (higher frequency) have higher temperature.

Our world is a complex web of energy matrix consist of vibrational codes.
The codes of matrix are simply varieties of vibrations as energy has its own specific frequency or wavelength.

In Quantum Physics,
we know that consciousness of an individual can manipulate probabilities of events.
There are Quantum Theories like Schrödinger’s cat that suggest that consciousness is linked to our reality.

Every choice you make affects the matrix.

Your thought and emotions play important roles in the world of matrix as well.
Emotion is like energy. Different emotions have different vibration. Lower emotions like hatred keep your energy field weak and higher emotions energize your energy field.
Emotional energy from us can ripple through the matrix system and being perceived by consciousness around us. Our emotions we experience actually have influence over our own reality, so be careful of how you feel in life. Avoid negative and lower emotion at all course as it will only attract negative outcome in the matrix.

You can pick up people’s emotion subconsciously, that is why sometimes we feel the emotion or emotional energy field from someone else. Our feelings are influencing people around us.

Finally, I would like to say that if you are a skeptic, who only sees the world within Newtonian Physics,
you only perceive things like emotions and thought to be something separated from the reality.

However, our world is not limited by Newtonian Physics and your assumption. Everything is interconnected and the Physical world functions beyond what you normally believe.

Enjoy living in the matrix.
The good news is,
if you know about the nature of the matrix,
you can control it.

In God We Trust is one of the best short films I have ever watched.
This multi award winning short film is simply interesting and meaningful.
I recommend my readers to watch it.

The short film is not a religious film.
“In God We Trust” is just a quote on an American coin.
It is a comedy action film about life and death.

You can watch this short film online here :

http://www.atomfilms.com/af/content/atom_348

I would like to say that your choices lead you to certain realities.
Heaven and hell are just two poles of outcome,
base on what you choose in the now.
So make you choices well.
You can choose to make “heavenlish” decision every moment.
which will lead you to “heavenlish” reality.

Small things count in life
and feeling good and making other people feel good are very good choices…
or you can say… they are “heavenlish” actions.

Choose to live in the heaven now.

Chatting online via instant messengers is a very good way to interact with other people.
Here are some of the links where you can download popular instant messengers :

MSN Messenger
Yahoo Instant Messenger (YIM)
Google Talk

Sometimes when you say “hi” to your friends online
they do not respond.
Sometimes they are sleeping or away but many times even when they are online,
they ignore us.
I am not that kind of chatter so I do not now why people ignore messages on instant messenger.

Just like in real life,
it is polite to say hello when we meet somebody we know.
It is not just about politeness
but also about how you make people feel.
sometimes a smile and a word of “Hello, how are you”
will make a difference to other people
although it is just a small and simple gesture.

Well, if you say “hi” to me online,
I shall respond to you and chat with you.
I am looking forward to build constructive and meaningful relationship with other people.

Sometimes instant messenger is faulty and I cannot get messages.
Sometimes I am sleeping when my PC is on.
Therefore I would like to apologies if I fail to respond to your message.

Smiling with a word of “hello” is not something worthless.
It is a polite gesture and a small action that makes the world better.

Small things count in life,
it is about how you make your choices.

Lost in Time 忘不了

Probably the best romantic drama out of Hong Kong since who knows when. Derek Yee’s subtle drama is solid and involving, and features fine acting from Cecilia Cheung and Lau Ching-Wan. The whole is a little too neatly packaged, but the film is remarkable in its affecting detail and storytelling restraint. One of the year’s best films.

for more information about this movie,
please read this webpage :

http://www.lovehkfilm.com/reviews_2/lost_in_time.htm

I would like to recommend my readers to watch this movie.
It is very well made and the story of this movie is simply superb…
simple yet very meaningful.

The story is about a young woman who has lost her fiancée.
She has decided to work hard to raise her fiancée’s child (an act of love)
Finally she manages to let go her past and move on to her new life.

This movies conveys very good messages to its audience and it provides valuable lessons that we can learn such as love, compassion, making choices and letting go.

By the way,
I just watched this movie yesterday.
I bought the DVD about a year ago.

*Having gratitude for the existence of such a great movie*

I have just blogged about myself (introduction)
and now I would like to blog about my readers.
Today I shall present a very special entry…
an entry where I can show my gratitude towards my readers.

I would like to introduce some of my readers here.

Kyels is a Malaysian blogger and she is one of the earliest visitors of this blog.
Sometimes we interact on instant messenger and I find that both of us share very similar intellectual interest.
No doubt both of us are very intellectually clicked.
We read the same kind of books and we discuss the same kind of topics.
She is a very good blogger and her entries are very good in the standard of her blog genre.
She updates her blog very frequently and most of the time I agree with her opinions.
She puts a lot of effort in getting to know other bloggers as she comments on many other blogs.

Here’s the link to Kyel’s blog :

http://kyels.com/wordpress/

She blogs about letting go too.

Thanks to Kyels for visiting my blog often and thanks to her for supporting me. *hugz*

Blog reader Kyels

I would love to introduce this special blog reader : Eliza Lee aka Lizzy the dreamer
She is a cute and talented Malaysian blogger.
We chat very often online and we are clicked emotionally….
Her blog entries are very well written, sometimes funny, and she likes to show her funny faces on her blog.
Usually I am not very interested in her blog genre but somehow she manages to pour in emotional ingredients into her entries, making her blog very interesting.
Somehow I find that I am so click with her entries,
maybe we have the same wavelength emotionally (both of us are Aries)
It is nice to have a blog friend like Lizzy

I would like to thank her for making a banner for my romance blog
and for discussing interesting stuffs on blogging with me.
*sweet hugz*

Here’s her blog where she post interesting entries :
http://suemefordreaming.blogspot.com/

Lizzy the mischievous blogger

Finally I want to introduce an active commenter of my blog : Multidimid
Multidimid never post his weblink so I can never tell if (s)he is a blogger.
I only know that he is from Malaysia.
He is the reader who has very similar spiritual views with me.
He understands my entries well and we are really clicked.
You can say that we are actually saying the same thing in different words.

I express my realization (yes, I know I purposely spell it as “realisation” on other entries) in a casual, direct and simple way
wherelse multidimid expresses his view in a more “new age” or “quantum Physics” style.
He does believe that human has limitless potential and he believes that human mind can manipulate reality.
We always agree with each other spiritually and I would like to thank him for putting effort in posting long and useful comments.

I would like to thank the other blog readers for reading my blog.
I am very happy if you find my blog to be very useful.
I think you might be interested to know why I post nice scenery images on my entries.
There are many reasons behind it
and one of the reasons is to show gratitude to my readers…
Many of the nice images are actually wallpapers being resized using simple HTML image code.
If you love the images, you can keep them.
They are my gift to my readers.
simple right click on the images and click [view image] to view the pictures in actual size.

I would like to take this opportunity to share some blog tips with you.
If you are using mozilla firefox browser,
it is very useful to hold the key [CTRL] and press [+] or [-] to change the size of the words for comfort reading.
You can also hold the key [CTRL] and roll your mouse to achieve the same effect.

You can also subscribe to my entries so that you can get my newest entries via email or RSS feeding. The feed links are on the right panel of this blog.
This webpage explains how RSS works.

Occasionally I create new blogs.
You can view my other blogs by clicking their hyperlinks on the right panel.

Finally, I welcome you to add me to your instant messenger.
simply add wushu_whc to your MSN or Yahoo IM
If you are using google talk, my Gtalk account is iqing1314

Have fun everybody and live well…

*having gratitude towards my readers*

*Update : If your comment does not appear on the comment box, that means you are commenting on my blog for the first time. After I approve your first comment, your future comments will all be approved automatically. Sorry for the inconvenience but I have to deal with spammers

thanks.

Many people tend not to realise something simple because they seek complicated explanation.
They have the mind frame and concept that the whole reality is complicated and things work in complicated ways.
Actually many things that are simple are made complicated.

Many Physical phenomena can be simplified with simple mathematical formulas. Events flow in certain patterns as time goes by. There is no need to make things complicated. Keep things simple…

When come to realisation, it is best to keep things simple and direct.
Talking the same things with long and complicated explanation only makes one walking around in circles.

Life is about making choices in the now and experiencing the world around us.
The basic thing we do is making choices, which is simple
but many people neglect simple things and they pursue complicated teachings and explanation.
End up some of them give up their free will and let others control their lives, which is quite sad.
Some of them waste their time walking in circles as they make things complicated and they reach no where.

Keep things simple.
You do not have to perceive simple things as something complicated.
Just like things happen naturally as we observe:

As the wind blows gently,
the leaves fall on the right spot
at the right time