Life is about making choices
- Life Feel
Choosing seems to be simple and easy but many people are not really choosing in life.
I have been using the word “choose” on my blog many times because I want my readers to realise that choosing consciously is what needed to be done if you wish to have control over your life.
Many people live in the passive state of accepting realities.
Instead of knowing what they need and choosing what to think, feel and do in life,
they choose to believe that reality is fixed and one has to accept the outcome in life.
That is not true.
The events in life is a product of our choices in the past.
What you choose or accept now will lead you to the life in the future
and now is the time where you can make choices and take action.
That is why life is actually in the now, not in the past nor future.
If we toss people into a (lucid) dream
where they have clear awareness in the dream and are able to do or create whatever they wish,
I believe they will just stand in the dream wondering what they should create in the dream despite having the ability to do whatever they imagine.
Many people just do not know what they need in life.
They just live by accepting their “fate” and being passive
yet they whine and complain that life is pathetic and uncontrollable.
Realise that you are the director of your own life and choosing is very important
even in small matters.
Stop being a pajama person,
who just accept reality passively and believe that reality is fixed.
Be a good chooser so that you can lead your life and live well. 
Is there any choice for some people? In each life you have already chosen and created your own settings or environments; and in this one you chose your parents and whatever childhood incidents that came within your experience. You wrote the script.
What about the handicapped people? Are there any choices for them? It is a particular reality in which they have chosen to know their existence, in which they have chosen to develop yourself; and again a unique and dear and beloved portion of reality in which they have chosen to flourish for a while. And in denying it, again, you deny the reality of experience.
There is no condition that you cannot change, except one indisputably physically accepted at birth within the realms of creature hood, such as a liability in terms of a missing organ, or a functional lack.
You are given the gift of the gods; you create your reality according to your beliefs; yours is the creative energy that makes your WORLD; there are NO limitations to the self except those you BELIEVE in.
Is there any choice in life if you have decided to come back to this physical world and experience some events you need to go through? However, using your free will, you have made physical reality into something quite different than what was intended.
The most hampering belief of all is the idea that the clues to current behavior and problems are buried and inaccessible. The answers are always there in our conscious minds
We must examine our invincible and core beliefs – strong ideas about your existence; the way you build your life. Examples,” human nature is inherently evil”, “my life is worthless”; “relationships are pointless”. The first example at its worst will make a person not trust a mate, family, friends, colleagues, country or the world in general.
Once understood to be false, the other subsidiary and offshoots will fall away. Distinguish between the facts of life and the beliefs of life - a daunting task for many.
You form your reality directly. You react consciously and unconsciously to your beliefs. You collect from the physical universe, and the interior one, data that seems to correlate with your beliefs.
To change, use your imaginations to move ideas in and out of your mind and propel them in the directions you desire. Your imaginations follow your beliefs, as do your emotions.
The process of imagining will also bring you face to face with other subsidiary ideas that momentarily bring you short.
Comment by multidimid — September 22, 2005 @ 7:57 am
yes.
and you know evil want to make people disbelieve or mock such gift so that they stay mundane and being easily controlled.
Comment by Life Feel — September 22, 2005 @ 2:46 pm
I spend a lot of time in the internet and like you, I express my thoughts. At times, I wonder who is on the other side of the screen. Is he a handsome guy like I dream of ? Or is he or she a handicapped person ? I would think that a handicapped person would spend more time using the computer because he or she has almost no where else to go. I suppose having handicapped people for friends would make us realize that we should be more appreciative. Then, we would not be dwelling on our problems. Thanks for reading this. Signing out at 1 in the morning because I cannot sleep.
Comment by Mary Ling — September 22, 2005 @ 5:06 pm