
In life we might encounter conflict with other people due to many reasons
such as misunderstanding, negativity (egoistic, hatred, anger), logic flaws and many more.
It is unwise to hurl nasty comments back at them or whine as it won’t work at all.
It only makes things worse,
making us being trapped in the loop of life.
To deal with such conflict we should approach these people and talk to them diplomatically with respect and solve the problem properly and smoothly.
If they still choose to attach to the conflict and not willing to let go,
well…. it is sad for them,
it is their choice *shrug*
We just have to let go and not attach to such problem.
We cannot expect everyone to have the same “wavelength” as us
and we cannot expect everybody to choose to be nice to us.
Just let go and move on.
Let them say or do whatever they want.
They are just wasting their time and energy while focusing on negativity, which will bring more negativity to themselves.
Save your energy on this matter and do other things that are constructive in your life.
Realise that “good” people might change to “bad” people and vice versa as “time” goes by so do not label or judge people as “good” or “bad”.
Therefore we also should let go and not attaching to perceive that certain people are “bad” for creating trouble for us.
That is the art of forgiving.


























Well it ain’t as easy as saying mate….We are humans…and we react towards pain…Sort of hypocrite if u tend to do things just because it is idealistic..
Comment by devilwitattitude — September 17, 2005 @ 8:28 am
That is your choice to believe so. and that is also your attachment
sad
and your label of “hyprocrite” on me is just a label.
Comment by Life Feel — September 17, 2005 @ 8:32 am
Interactions and conflicts with others do occur, yet none occur what you do not attract or draw to you by your THOUGHTS, FEELINGS, ATTITUDES or EMOTIONS.
This applies both before, during and after physical life. Miraculously, you are given the GIFT of creating your own experiences and learned the lessons.
Comment by multidimid — September 17, 2005 @ 10:45 am
it is choice actually.
people who choose love actually attract loving people.
That is what I know from people who constantly do love meditation.
Emotion and thoughts are initiated by your CHOICE.
Comment by Life Feel — September 17, 2005 @ 10:57 am
My boss just hates me. Whatever I do, she would think that I am a small little girl who don’t know anything serious. Just yesterday, she chased me out of the meeting by saying I am not involve in such and such event. Imagine being around for 8 years and still she treats me like a piece of shit ! What she demands from me, she does not demand from others. There is no fair standard. This morning, the clerk relaxed on the couch while she was talking to her. She could just accept her and her unprofessional ways. But me ? People call it a conflict of personality. I rather just say she is bad; downright bad.
Comment by Mary Ling — September 22, 2005 @ 5:13 pm
The next time there is a meeting, I am just going to ask if it is important. If not, I shall not attend. 8 years of being around and yet, it is like I just stepped in yesterday. Friday is the weekly assembly. She alwasys say something that is nice. But she herself does not practise it. What is the point of preaching and yet not doing ?
Comment by Mary Ling — September 22, 2005 @ 5:16 pm