Dealing with Reality

To ChooseSeptember 11, 2005 9:53 pm

 

We have the free will to choose our realities in life.
Unfortunately many people choose to give up this privilege and let other people control them.

Many people are indecisive in life.
They let others (for example the government) to do things or decide things for them.
When they cannot handle their lives well,
they cling to fear and they become dependant.
Hence they are being controlled easily.

We are made to feel a bit of fear, insecurity and other negative emotions so that we give up our choice and let others rule our lives.

People need to be awaken and realise that they do not have to live in controlled lives and they have the free will to choose.

Open your eyes and observe and do not let negativity rule your life.

I would like to quote something from this webpage.

If you don’t care to take control of your mind, others will do their best to do it for you. It begins with your parents who most often do have your best interests at heart, though they can only teach you what they have learned. It then continues with educational institutions whose main interest is in turning you into a socially-productive individual who will pledge allegiance to and feel dependent upon the external world or rather the powers that govern the specific country. It is not in their interest to turn you into a fearless human being who is fully aware of and capable of using his mental faculties, who knows that his thoughts create his reality, because then you cannot be controlled and manipulated. It is in their interest to keep you feeling slightly anxious, afraid, slightly inadequate, insecure, and helpless - feeling good enough to be socially productive, but not so good that you stop participating in a never-ending chain of purchasing pills and goodies that will at least for a few moments make you feel a little bit better. In this way you keep on fueling economy, which is good for the country.

What you feed your mind, you experience in your life

That’s why, after you get sufficiently brainwashed through the schooling system, you get more helpings through daily newspapers, news and TV programs. In this way, your mind gets a new daily dose of programming with fresh disasters in the world, lest you forget that there is a possible danger lurking behind every corner. You get more helpings through flashy advertisements. They are all happily programming your subconscious mind, whether you are aware of it or not.

A lovely woman and a hot car may be just what you need to feel better right now

Companies are investing billions of dollars each year on advertising because it is a wonderful way of hypnotizing people - of influencing people’s thoughts and emotions - and it works. When you keep on flashing an idea - whether through words, pictures, music, movies or any other form - day in and day out - it becomes so familiar to the people that they accept it as their own.

Higher Emotions, Being 5:01 pm

 

Being in a state is about being ( choose to be )
not doing.

For example,
You just be happy, you don’t do happiness or become happy.
You just simply be happy in the now.

To be in a state like happiness,
you just choose to be happy. :)
Smiling helps to bring you to that state.

Even if you are not feeling well,
you can fake it till you make it
( faking is a way of choosing using imagination )

so just let things go,
relax, smile and be happy . :)

Letting Go, Realisation 2:41 pm

 

Eat when you are hungry,
Sleep when you are tired,

By doing things naturally,
You are letting the flow of life flows.

Eat when you are full,
Work when are tired,
You are going against the natural flow.

Many people are living in chaotic lives.

People need to realise that we need to live smoothly,
living a harsh life will bring problems to us mentally and physically.
Without smooth flow in life, we will get “stuck” in the loops of life
and it will be hard for us to move on.

Sometimes when we need to let go, just let go
Choose to let go, and let the flow of life flows…

Letting Go, Realisation 1:07 pm

 

Wise people know that attachment is the source of suffering.

When we are attached to something,
we suffer from feeling bad when we lose it.
Outer events can manipulate the inner feelings of people who are attached to certain things.

Some people who choose to dwell in past memories are said to be attaching to past events. They just choose not to let go…..

Realise that events, pasts and everything that exist around us are just illusion.
When we extent the time frame to infinity,
there will be no event that really matters, as events are just temporary.

For example,
if you feel sad when you lose 50 dollars.
such an event is insignificant after 30 years, 60 years, a lifetime, millennia.
It has a beginning, and it will reach its end.

So realise that events are illusions that exist temporary
and choose not to adhere to them.
Choose to let go and be free.

Letting Go, To Choose 11:51 am

 

Many people unconsciously dwell in the past.
They choose to relive their past memory.
Day after day they think about their old life
instead of living in now.

If you choose to adhere to the past all the time,
you will get stuck in your past reality and it will be hard for you to move on.

Past exist so that we can learn from it and move on.
It is the old events that have faded away so there is no point of reliving it.
Choose not to whine
Choose not to believe that life stays in the grey world of past

If the past is haunting you
Choose to let it go gently
and choose to focus on NOW-

You live only once so choose not to live in a grey world.
Choose to enjoy every moment of NOW. :)
as life is all about living in the NOW.
(Choices are made in the NOW, not in the past nor future)

To Choose 10:19 am

 

Life is about making choices.
People make choices all the time,
whether they realise it or not.

Different choices lead to different realities
and different realities lead to different events and outcomes of life.

So make the right choice so that you will live in the reality that you desire.

If you feel weak, choose to be strong. :)
Realise that you have the free will to choose the reality you want in life.

Do not let fear, anger, hatred and other lower emotions to rob away your rights of choosing your own reality. you can choose not to adhere to negativity by embracing positivity.

Personal Experience 10:02 am

 

Hello.

My blogging name is Life Feel.
The purpose of this blog is for me to share words of wisdom on dealing with life and reality.
I shall post something short and simple and I hope my posts will help you to improve your life.

Some of the words that can help you to deal with reality :

To CHOOSE
LETTING GO
LOVE
WILL, IMAGINATION, EMOTION