Here’s a nice article. I shall translate it to English later…
希腊神话里，爱神丘比特身上背了两支箭，一支金箭，一支铅箭。传说被金箭射中的人就会滋生爱苗，情爱如痴，被铅箭射中的人就反目成仇，恨之入骨。
一般人总是希望永远不要被铅箭射中，而且希望天天被金箭射中。可叹的是，丘比特总是双箭连发，当一个人为金箭沉迷的时候，第二支箭马上就射来了。
但是人有所不知，金箭与铅箭不是背在丘比特身上，而是背负在我们自己心上。我们热爱一个人的时候，其心如金，闪闪生辉，所到之处鸟语花香皆如春天；我们怨恨人的候,其心如铅，灰败沉重，所到之地冰雪封冻，一如严冬。
其实我们每个人都背负着金箭与铅箭。
爱神，就是我们自己。
Life Feel , ” What is the secret to happiness ? ”
Prophageus , ” Choice . ”
Here’s another illustration of YOU by Prophageus.
Click to enlarge 
YOU
Qin
Today I would like to write about an interesting “simulation game”.
This game is very similar to another role playing game called SIMS 2. The difference is that YOU will be playing multiple roles at once.
Before playing this game, YOU are formless, which means YOU do not have a physical body. Therefore YOU need a “medium” to play the simulation game.
To start the game YOU carefully choose a “character” and plan his role in the big game. YOU look around in the game matrix to find a suitable family for this character. Since YOU are curious to learn about this game, YOU also set a “mission” or several missions for the role so that YOU will experience certain events through this role. Sometimes YOU can set a mission for the role to cause certain events in the game to happen.
Once YOU have done all the settings, YOU “incarnate” into the baby of the family that YOU have chosen. Now YOU have a “body” to play the role in this game. Let’s label this new born baby as YOUR “extension” since he is literally an extension of YOU in this game.
Since YOU are playing multiple characters in this game, YOU will be controlling many “extensions” in the game.
Time flies…. Woosshhhh
Some of your extensions are now adults. Their lives are getting interesting and YOU just sit back and watch things happen. YOU, as a consciousness, are controlling YOUR extension with YOUR will. Whenever YOU wish an extension to move about, YOU will YOUR extension to do so. YOUR extension will get a “gut feeling” and move according to YOUR will.
Sometimes it is not easy to “tell” YOUR extension what to do as they can be very stubborn. Let’s say that one of YOUR extensions is called Jason. One day Jason is walking back home from college. YOU notice that there are many fierce puppies roaming around the road. They could probably hurt Jason seriously. Jason does not know about the puppies since he didn’t sense the presence of these blood thirsty beasts. YOU tried to warm him about the danger by sending some “wave message” to him.
Jason got YOUR warning. He felt uncomfortable in his heart and stomach. However, his ego causes him to think that he shouldn’t detour just to save time. He thinks and analyses too much and decides to walk the path he used to walk.
AAAAUUUCHHH!!! Too bad Jason got bitten by those cute, blood thirsty puppies and he is bedridden in hospital for a week. From this event he learned his lesson.
Well, sometimes YOU might feel that YOUR extensions are so stubborn to listen to your warnings and hints, which might annoy both parties. YOU know that YOU and YOUR extensions should cooperate well to play the game smoothly.
Now let us use a bit of extended imagination….
Let’s say that Jason, Tom and Lisa are YOUR extensions. One of their “missions” in life is to meet each other and become good friends. YOU carefully choose to incarnate them in the same residential area. One day you manifest an event that interest these three extensions, let’s say a party. YOU will YOUR extensions to walk to each other and YOU will them to have interest to talk to each other, They break the ice and become friends. Congrates, YOU have accomplished something in the game! That is how everything works 
(Dear readers, try to imagine you are the will of a few people and imagine willing them to walk to each other and greet each other… or setting events so that YOUR extensions will meet each other. Imagine as clear as possible as if YOU are controlling several consciousness at once)
Jason, Tom and Lisa always hang out together. They always chat online too. They ARE actually the same, which are actually YOU, but due to their “illusionary perception” they thought they are just separated individuals…. It must be fun for YOU to play them without them to notice that they are actually the same 
Well, let’s say that I am also a game player, and YOU and I are in the game of another game, and there is another BIGGER YOU playing YOU and I as extension… and this BIGGER YOU is the extension of another BIGGER YOU.. This goes right up to THE BIGGEST YOU, the Will, or consciousness of all consciousness… Some people call this BIGGEST YOU as God, others prefer to label him as universal super consciousness, or whatever bombastic names. However, YOU and I know that there is no separation between both of US and we are just the extension of THE BIGGEST YOU. Too bad OUR extensions on planet earth still live in the illusions, thinking that every extension is separated from each other…
* * * * *
YOU actually love YOUR extensions. They are cute little people under YOUR care to play their role in the illusionary world. YOU actually hope that YOUR extensions will start to know YOU, say hello to YOU or talk to YOU. Well, if YOU love your “creations” so much that YOU will help them in their path, and if they turn to YOU and request something from YOU, I believe YOU will help them to grant their desire right? Too bad after playing the game for a long time, many extensions still never get to know YOU. They are still living in their illusionary world, worrying about their assignments and work. You can’t really blame them right? Look at Jason, he is listening to his egos all the time and he is playing Britney Spear’s crappy songs respectively all the time in his mental ear. With such low awareness, don’t YOU think it is difficult for him to notice YOU? He needs to put effort to look deep into himself!
If these extensions want to manifest the lives that they want, or grow spiritually, they need to look deep into themselves and get to know YOU!
YOU want to help them, so YOU come to ME.
I have a wise extension called Prophy. Prophy always listen and connect to ME and I always help him to fulfill his desires. I know Prophy can help YOUR stubborn extension, Jason in his mission to connect to YOU. So YOU and I have made an agreement to let Jason learn spiritually under Prophy. Both of us manifest a situation and let Prophy and Jason meet somewhere….
Prophy and Jason chatted for a long time. Jason was deeply inspired by Prophy. He learns a lot about reality manifestation from Prophy and improves very fast. Under Prophy’s teaching, Jason meditates and stays away from TV and movies. He learns to face his egos and lower emotions like fear and hatred. Prophy teaches Jason to increase his awareness and to get to know YOU. In their world, WE are being called “higher selves” or “souls”, what a weird name for US.
To get to know his “higher self”, Jason learns that his physical body, personality, mental chatter, rubbish memories etc. are not the real him (YOU). He let go his ego and mental thinking, and sinks deep. He stays in the now and feel aware. He feels so calm, crystal clear and suddenly he feels a Zen like realization. He “sees” a big pool of universal consciousness, connected to everything, spaceless and formless. Yes, finally YOUR extension sees YOU. He is waving his hands at YOU…. Wow man, YOU got really excited. Finally YOUR extension has successfully known YOU!
Now Jason feels connected to YOU. He realized that connecting to YOU helps him in fulfilling his wishes. YOU help him in tackling various issues. For example, whenever Jason faces his exam, he let YOU know his problems and desire to do well in exam.
He let YOU know the outcome he desired by imagining the result vividly. He let YOU know more by feeling (emotion) the success of doing well in his future exam. He confirms his desire by having the will of doing well in his exam. He “faxed” this information to YOU in a clean, tidy, clearly described form. Since YOU know exactly what Jason wants, YOU set up various situations where Jason will be successful in his exam. YOU arrange other smart extensions to help him along the way. YOU arrange various events that are not expected by Jason. YOU nourish Jason’s physical body to keep him healthy. YOU let Jason “feel” the questions that might come out in the exam, so that Jason knows which chapter should be learned more. In the end of the day, Jason did very well in his exam. He thanked YOU with gratitude.
Years later, Jason falls in love with Jenny, who is a very pretty girl, who happens to be MY extension. Jason tries to gain Jenny’s heart but failed at many attempts. He asked Prophy for advice. Prophy told him to talk to ME, saying that if I allow Jenny to be his, then they will become a loving couple. Jason asks ME to grant his wish, so I manifest a situation for them to meet and I let Jenny pay closer attention to Jason. Politely Jason talks to her and ask her out. Jenny does not know why she was so turned on by Jason. Finally, they become happy couple
Years later Jason decides to develop spiritually. He decides to get to know YOU, and also THE BIGGEST YOU. He realizes that he has to overcome the illusions that make him perceive himself as separated from all living beings. First he has to overcome his lower emotions, especially fear and ego. He needs to overcome the mundane entertainment memories that keep droning in his mind. He can’t “see” YOU if he is seeing naked ladies and listening to Britney Spears all the time right? By embracing higher emotions like love and compassion, Jason gains spiritual awareness. With a calm mind and a loving, opened heart, he sees YOU and he realized that YOU or the BIGGEST YOU is always with him. He clearly realizes that everyone in this world is just extensions of THE BIGGEST YOU.
THE BIGGEST YOU is actually “inside” “Jason”.
People, who seek inwards, will finally get to know YOU!
Game over….
Sequel: YOU 2
I Can Change My Life - Yui (subbed video)
I can change my life !
Yes you can !
I have found a nice inspirational music video
and I would like to share it with you…
Life - by YUI
subbed music video
http://www.narutomania.com/life.zip
Enjoy !
Today I would like to share a very good article written by an indigo child.
Enjoy :
Dear World,
There are so many things I would like to explain to you, so many wonders, so many incredible and exciting things. They are all one thing really, one truth, that is so simple, but needs so much traveling to get to before anyone who has forgotten it can understand it fully.
Firstly, no matter what you believe, there is one thing that unites all peoples, and that is this: the filling and beautiful feeling, the existence of love in each persons heart. It is there in everyone, everything, every person and object and idea and feeling. It is the basis of everything. It is the base substance, out of which everything else exists.
If it is not love, it is not there, it is an illusion of the ego, the mind.
This is the great truth, the wonder of life.
Secondly, how you experience reality, that intricate and subtle thing you call real, is your personal creation. You have made it of your love, it is yours wholly and fully, and will always be yours. So, in effect, you are existing inside yourself, or what you think of as your mind. In this way, everything is a reflection of an aspect of yourself, and you recognize it as this also. This means that there is no polarity, no right or wrong, only is, and it is you. Do not judge what it, do not label it, this creates separation.
In that everything is you, so you are everything.
This is a part of what is meant by ‘all is one’.
Everyone else is a part of you, and so you are a part of everyone else. The meaning of love is the recognition that that person is another facet of yourself, and you are a reflection of a part of them. In this way, love can be learnt of all things, and non-things. Fear is the separation of these parts, and the un-acceptance ‘that’ that is a part of what you think of as yourself. But to join these parts, painful as it may seem, is easy and fulfilling.
To fully love something you do not like or understand, that is to make it a part of yourself again, to un-break yourself. So reach out, be that thing, find it’s reflection in your heart, resonate with it and love it, accept it for being there. And you will be whole again.
This is the great secret that is no secret, it is so simple, so real, you can do it today, right now. Accept it, do not fight it. Love truly is all that is, and you are love.
Love From Lindsay
source :
http://www.namastecafe.com/evolution/indigo/speaks.htm
Prophageus is guest-blogging for today’s entry.
Enjoy
Realization is when you have something that you get a sense is there, but aren’t quite sure about, and you finally become fully aware of it being ‘reality’ or definite.
So, as an example, let’s say your intuition tells you that someone is lying to you. You get a sense that they are lying, but you have no fact to back it up, once your mind figures out that they are by piecing together the puzzle pieces or you acquire more factual evidence that they are you then realize that in fact they were lying to you. And, this is a good example, cause ppl tell ‘little white lies’ all day everyday. Some ppl do it for a living.
We all have maps of the world, a useful term from the practice of NLP, and these maps aren’t static. They change as we gather more information. In our early life, our map is set by what we observe through our senses, and also through what we’re allowed to observe by our environmental controls(parents, teachers, etc.). It is also created by how we piece things together, and we all piece things together in different ways. So, if you imagine all the tiny little variables that go into making someone’s map, you can come to the realization that that is what makes us all seem so ‘individual’. My map has a red dot where your map has a blue dot. :O
So, when it comes to important life-changing realizations, how do you think they happen?
Right. New information is presented that fits into the puzzle picture your mind is trying to create, even if it conflicts with a current piece that ’seems’ to fit, so your mind chooses the new piece and ditches the old one. Then a little light bulb lights up in your head, and you go “AHA!”, and then you’re all giddy like a schoolgirl at christmas time.
So, let’s make some practical use of this.
We know we have Will. We know we make our own choices. We know that our choices create endless variables. We know that we’re constantly ‘changing’. But, are we really changing? Or are we just adjusting our perspective? Example: You’re looking at one of those pictures that has a hidden picture. You look at it all day, see nothing but a bunch of odd pattern, even though you know ppl say there’s supposedly a picture of a pirate ship in there somewhere. So, when you finally switch your gaze to looking through the picture, instead of at it, your eyes focus in such a way as to show the picture. Now, it might ’seem’ that your life just changed, cause now you can see the picture. But, really, the picture is the same. You just finally switched to a way of percieving things that allowed you to experience/see something you hadn’t before. SO, it ’seems’ new, but nothing really changed inside you.
So, how do we make practical use of the fact that we have Will, and that we can realize things? The first step would be to make the choice to allow yourself to maybe see things differently than you’ve been seeing them. How many different ways are there to look at something? Ask yourself that, honestly. Pick any random thing, person, place, object, idea, anything. And, ask yourself, how many different ways are there of looking at this?
Remember, it takes new information to change the puzzle’s picture. Right now, all our pictures look like random thrown together 2 year old paintings slopped onto paper. HAHA, with missing sections, and supposed chaos. When we learn to look at things from different perspectives, then we can rearrange the picture, and maybe we can actually see what the 2 year old saw and was trying to create. Some of us have started to build pretty pictures, and they’re taking shape, none are complete.. but some are clear enough that we can see what the artist is trying to show us.
So, Make a Choice, to realize. Realization is fun, useful, ninjarific, and it only boils at a temperature of 1 degree!
Finally I am back.
I bought a new laptop yesterday and now I can continue to blog.
It is new year.. a fresh new year for everybody.
I would like to share a few nice songs with you…
They are sung by Sissel
Enjoy!
Appreciate things in your life. Love everyone and everything in this world.
Greetings.
Sorry for not updating my blog for quite a long time as my laptop is kaput.
I hope my laptop is fixed as soon as possible.
Christmas is coming and I would like to give you guys a Christmas present.
(as I have said in one of my entries, we do not need to be told how to celebrate certain festivals but it is fun to give people nice stuffs… Sharing is great ! )
It is an eBook called A Happy Pocket Full of Money.
It is a very good book on reality and manifestation and it tells how a person can gain abundance in life by changing oneself.
I strongly recommend this eBook to those who are interested in reality manifestation.
Just let me know your email address and I shall forward this wonderful eBook to you.
You can contact me by sending me an email, or simply reply to this post.
Have fun !
I would love to share an article with you.
It’s written by a teacher of mine : Prophageus
You can say that he is today’s guest blogger. Enjoy !
Will
The dictionary defines will as something with which one makes a choice, especially with purposefulness or determination. That is a very useful way to look at what we all have available to us. And, if you take any event, and it’s perceived outcome you can trace it all back to a single choice. One of the better tools we’ve been given, free will is definitely one of the most useful if we learn to use it. Many of us don’t really make real choices, we make frivolous ones based on many outside factors that may or may not be too relevant.
So, what goes into using our will to make a choice? What are the key ingredients to expressing our will in a useful and meaningful way? Do we really have a choice? Are we in enough control of ourselves to make real choices with purposefulness? When’s the last time you made a choice, I mean REALLY made a choice and stuck to it and did it? Will is the ultimate tool, but how do you use it?
The first step to expressing your will successfully, in a manner that’s useful to yourself and others, is to realize that you have WILL. So, how do you realize you have will? You look at yourself, deeply, and observe your choices. Ask yourself, why did I really choose to do THAT? Many choices we make aren’t really expressive of our will, sometimes they express other’s will. We make choices based on others opinions, on the unknown, on ‘facts’, on our own sometimes unrealistic perception, on other’s unrealistic perception, on ‘experts’, on feelings we might not necessarily interpret correctly, etc. So, analyze the choices you make throughout a day. Count how many times you actually made a real choice. A choice where you actually really wanted something, and you made a real determined, purposeful choice to do it/get it/etc. Observe yourself, and your will, how you use it daily. That is how to realize you have will, and how intertwined it is in everthing that occurs in your life. You can begin to see how your will leads you to everything you experience, whether you give others power over your will or use it yourself, everything is up to you.. it’s your choice.
So, after we realize we have will, then what? Well, now you start to use your will to really make a choice to get to know yourself. You cannot really make realistic clear goals of what you want in life if you don’t even really know yourself. So, get to know yourself. Then, use your will to decide what you do and do not want in your life, and make a firm choice to stick to that. Start exercising your will. Even with something simple, like a habit you KNOW you should stop, but you just haven’t for ’some reason’. Use your newfound will to stop that habit ‘cold turkey‘, and be aware of how powerful and alive you now feel. When you really start to make real choices, and you use your will to do so, you’ll notice a change in yourself and your reality.
I have to admit that I have made a mistake recently.
I have to apologies to myself and make the right choices.
Actually I was confused about my choices and action.
Recently I do things out of my passion.
I have to admit that I have created several new blogs because of my keen interest in certain themes. I blog and gain pleasure from doing so.
I was not certain whether my action was taken due to intuition, inspiration, distraction or passion.
I just do things headlong without really considering my action.
However, I was aware that something is wrong.
I feel like I am doing things that I am not suppose to do.
Time is wasted and somehow I went imbalance and confused.
I have made my choices unwisely.
Making choices is not easy.
I myself have made a lot of mistake in choosing.
I must be aware of my “future” action
and consider every of my choice,
whether the decision I make has a “need” or it is just an outcome of distraction or confusion.
I learn from my mistake and I must move on.
For now I need to find my direction.
I feel like my current blog is ego driven and I need to stop for a while and set things properly.
I need to clear my head.
Making choices is simple,
but not easy.
Imagination is the creation of consciousness.
It is a great potential in us and we should learn to develop it to live in a great life.
With imagination, many things are made possible
and many problems can be solved.
An idea is being imagined before it is being put in action and manifest in our reality.
For example, a computer in front of you is started from the idea of the inventor.
The idea is put to work and finally computers are being produced and being used by us.
Imagination is simply the bridge between our consciousness and reality.
Imagination involve not just visualization but other senses and feelings as well. The shaper your imagination goes, the better your potential is developed and the more intelligent you will become.
Many people are limited in life because they cannot imagine well.
They complain that their life is plain yet they do not really know what they desire.
People who can imagine well “see” better into what they desire in life.
They make better choices and they can control their reality.
Contrary to what many people believe,
Imagination can be developed fast.
I would recommend my readers to put effort in developing this useful potential so that you will gain lifelong benefit from applying it.
I might blog about it on my future post.
Applying will and imagination in life makes a person strong as one who does so has the control over oneself and reality.
Will power is a human potential that is worth developing.
With will your consciousness is making firm choices and putting your will into action further empower your act of consciousness.
Will is the action of your consciousness by making choices.
That is why one needs to learn about choosing.
It is simple, but may not be easy.
With will your consciousness is making a choice and heading towards its goal.
Consistent will will enable you to manifest the reality that you desire.
Having will power is very useful in dealing with yourself,
which is controlling your own emotions and mind,
instead of being controlled by them.
Weak people are easily swayed by outer stimulus,
For example people who are over sensitive (having low emotional quotient)
can become extremely unease and tensed when someone just call them “stupid” or “useless”
(It is obvious that emotionally strong people would not let themselves being controlled by anger just because of some petty labels)
Some people even commit suicide just because their inner voice and emotions have controlled them. That is very sad.
Therefore we need to develop our will power to control ourselves well.
We need will power to be able to make choices and control our own reality.
(Remember, choices should be made by your consciousness (will), not your inner voice nor your emotions)
Choose to develop your will power to control your emotions and mind.
Whenever your emotions and inner voices are trying to influence you, choose firmly not to succumb to them. You are the master of yourself, not your mind nor emotions.
With consistent will, you will gradually develop your will power and your emotions and mind will have less influence over you. You should control them, instead of being controlled by them
There are ways to develop will power and I shall blog about it in my future post.
Life is about making choices.
Make them well.
Today’s post is nothing much about realisation of reality.
It is about my experience in blogging.
I would like to post about blogging today as I have not been updating this blog lately
because I was a bit busy focusing on my other blogs.
I blog a lot.
I have about ten blogs.
I started blogging since 2001.
People always ask me why don’t I have a blog with many categories for various themes.
To me, it is not possible.
Each blog of mine is unique in its own way.
Each blog has its theme, mood and direction.
I cannot simply just mix my anime blog with my romance blog.
The mood is just wrong.
Blogging is just a way of expressing ideas and thoughts.
Just like any other activities like walking and talking…
Every blogger blogs has (her)his own way and direction.
To me, blogging is a way of expressing my passion.
Every time I post an entry, I feel satisfied.
Blogging is meaningful to me.
At least through blogging,
I share my joy and passion with my readers
and I improve humanity little by little through my blogs.
Just like what multidimid has commented on other blog,
blogs are made for the joy of sharing.
I agree with him.
I believe that both of us understand each other well…
and I am happy to have a loyal and wise reader like him (her).
(I hope multidimid will let me know his/her gender)
Question : Am I blogging for fame?
Answer : I blog anonymously. Can I become famous with a realization blog like this?
Many of my other blogs are completely anonymous, even without my nickname being displayed.
Question : Am I blogging for money?
Answer : No. Obviously not. I have Google adsence on my Online Shopping blog and that feature is being added just for fun and excitement. I am not updating that blog anymore.
Question : Do I have any blogging agenda?
Answer : I share stuffs on my blogs and I blog for joy and passion. My main blog is this blog. It has been submitted to various blog directories because I want as many people as possible to read my entries and benefit from them. Many people need to read something that can help them to live well.
If you have more question,
feel free to ask me honestly.
Regarding my style of blogging,
I blog in simple sentences.
I avoid using bombastic words and flowery sentences
because I want my message to be understood by my readers.
I want to reduce the communication barrier between my readers and me.
I want to have good connection with my readers.
That is why I blog as friendly as possible.
I comment on my readers’ blogs and I display all their blogs on my right panel
To me, the relationship between blogger and readers is quite important.
Somehow we are interrelated and it is best to have good relationship with other people in life.
I choose harmony.
Sometimes I might disagree with your ideas and you might disagree with my entries.
That is fine for me as disagreement is acceptable in discussion.
The important part of a discussion is the relationship amongst us.
Sadly some readers choose to hate me or label me as hypocrite by making assumption about me (they can’t read my mind and personality).
It is their choice… I respect them and …
so be it *shrug*
Some readers commented that I blog like an old wise man or I am like a Jedi master.
Sorry to let you know that I am a 23 year young student.
I simple just share my realization on this blog.
Realization is very different from Philosophy and theory.
Philosophy and theory are like talking Bla Bla Bla and making hypothesis and assumption and put some points to support them.
Sometimes they make things complicated and end up they walk around in circles.
Realisation is simple
it is just observing what is being presented without judgment.
Just like a stone is a stone, and falling leaves are just falling leaves.
It is simply observation without judgment.
However, people perceive simple things in complicated manner
as if Zen-like stuffs are very deep theories…
I do not know how this happens
but I can only say that things are actually simple
it is the illusions of mind that make us feel confused.
There is no need to walk around in circles and put complicated labels.
Keep things simple.
I would like to introduce you to some of my other blogs.
There is a list of my blogs on the right panel of this blog for your ease of finding my blogs.
Since the scope of my blogs are very wide,
please do not expect all of my blogs to satisfy your taste because each blog has very different theme.
Enjoy :
This is a blog for me to share my realisation of life.
You can say that it is a “spiritual” blog as it focus on having a healthy and free livelihood,
It is about being able to control one’s life instead of being “trapped” in life.
This blog is telling my readers that life is not just about suffering and one can choose to live a comfortable reality.
This is my xanga story blog.
I have not been updating it for a while.
Last time I used to post meaningful stories on my xanga blog.
The stories focus on love, compassion, friendship and other aspects of life.
If you like my xanga blog stories,
please share them with your friends.
I have stopped updating this blog.
It is about online shopping.
Last time I used to enjoy online shopping.
I have discovered a lot of interesting and weird stuffs on eBay
so I thought the idea of sharing my online shopping experience is cool
That’s how I got this blog.
I stop blogging on this blog because it took me too much time to post an entry.
This is a blog of romance.
The mood of this blog is important to me
as it is a piece of emotional artwork.
The layout is very simple and plain to express the idea of pure love between a girl, and a boy.
The author is anonymous to preserve the mood of the blog
I even do not want my readers to know the gender of the author for this reason 
each post is short, simple and compact.
Its emotional value is posted in a spacious cube…
the sense of security and privacy of a person’s love feelings.
This blog is my anti-stress blog.
I believe people need to slow down a bit in life.
People need to learn to let go and relax.
This blog is very simple and spacious with relaxing pictures and calm mood
If you feel tired and stressed
simply calm down and enjoy yourself on my relaxing blog.
Yeah. This blog is cool and active.
I am an anime watcher.
One of my favorite anime is Bleach.
Kuchiki Rukia is the lead female character in Bleach.
This blog is created for her fans.
You can find a lot of goodies like fan arts and banners here.
My Days
It is my new blog and it is not ready yet.
Expect to see a lot of my pictures there.
Most of my blogs are on Blogsome.
I need to keep a backup of my entries on this blog
in case Blogsome terminates all its blogs
(this might happen, I hope it will never happen )
sometimes I post very long articles there and simply put the link on my other blogs,
just to save space.
About other people’s blog,
I must say that it is not easy to find good blogs on internet.
I read other blogs for fun and interaction.
Many blogs are online diaries where bloggers share their life experiences and interesting findings on their blog.
Sadly many bloggers choose to blog negatively.
Personally I would recommend my readers to avoid the obsession of reading negative blogs
but if you think it is alright and you can control yourself well,
you can read them for fun
If you want me to recommend good blogs,
I would recommend you to read something positive.
One nice example is smashp0p by Jason Goh.
although he blogs about mundane life in Malaysia,
his blog is colorful and positive.
His entries are simple and easy to understand.
I like to read blogs that are positive and simple…
as I always say, it is better to be simple and understandable.
About other people’s ways of blogging,
I respect their ways of blogging.
Blogging is free.
A blogger can choose whatever ways of blogging as long as (s)he does not limit or harm other people.
There are many negative and flaming blogs,
just like there are many negative people.
I choose to accept all blogs and bloggers.
“bad” and “good” to me are irrelevant.
There are various “colors” in a spectrum and it is best to learn to accept all sorts of blogs,
be it “good” or “bad”.
However, I have my own taste.
I prefer to visit positive blogs that are nice and simple. That is just my taste.
I think there is no need to teach nor lecture other people on how to blog. Whether a person blogs for fame, money or bad intention, (s)he has her(his) own journey in life. One will learn from (her)his own experience. What we need to do is learning how to accept them and live together harmoniously.
If you like to know more about blogging, you can email me or chat with my on instant messenger.
I am willing to share my blogging experience with my readers.
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202 405 059 and iQing
See you around my readers
Take care and live well.
This post is inspired by fellow blogger Suanie.
She has said that she will send some of her hate mails to me.
(she was just kidding)
Some people receive hate mails.
I am not excluded and I shall share my experience with you.
I have received a hate mail not long ago from a Chinese course mate of mine.
It is interesting to see that (s)he hates me just because I am having different interests from (her)him.
(this reminds me of fanatically religious people who hate other people who are different from them).
It is more interesting to see how (s)he put a lot of effort in hating me.
Besides spreading bad words about me,
(s)he has created a fake email account : cultexorcist @web.de
with a fake name to write a very long hate mail to me…
I have posted the hate mail on my backup blog as the hate mail is too long to be displayed here.
Here’s the permalink :
http://lfbackup.blogspot.com/2005/11/hate-mail.html
It is interesting to see how (s)he made a lot of assumptions
(S)He has failed to provoke me (I was laughing while reading the hate mail)
because I was reading something written by a coward who “slapped” me without the guts to show his(her) true identity (real name)
and this coward (my unknown course mate) was willing to spend a lot of time in creating a fake email account and writing a very long email just to provoke me.
Some people are funny. They put so much effort on doing something that is not beneficial and destructive
(hatred makes people do crazy things like that).
I pity him(her),
after wasting a lot of time on the hate mail,
(s)he has proven (her)himself to be a coward
and worst of all,
(s)he is a puppet of (her)his mind and emotions
and (s)he thinks with logic flaws (in this case, making assumption and being driven by his ego).
:)
I hope you will not do the same thing like this coward.
It is totally non-beneficial to hate others.
It only makes you weak (becoming a coward, making assumptions etc.)
Here’s a question for you to ponder.
If you receive similar hate mails
what would you do?
Here are two options :
1.
Reply the mail or respond to it angrily and create a big loop of hate war.
(I notice that there are blog wars going on amongst fellow bloggers)
2.
Simply forgive and let go and laugh at the hate mail like me
Make your choice wisely.
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